Attention freshmen girls aka “fresh meat,” your first year of college is a learning experience, to say the least, and it is undoubtedly filled with trial and error. Let us help you out a little with advice on how to handle those booze filled parties you have heard about. Whether or not you decide to “go Greek” it’s important to know a few do’s and don’ts of frat parties. Her Campus recently posted an article that I found to be very enlightening, so here are a few points from the article that I recommend to keep in mind…
1. DO know which frat house you are at.
Chi Psi, Chi Phi, Phi Psi, Psi U—it gets a bit complicated when they all sound the same. “There’s nothing worse than calling a fraternity by the wrong name,” says Alaine, a junior at Miami University (OH). Also, make sure you know how to pronounce the name (Sigma Chi is pronounced Sigma Kye, not Chi like a Chia pet), and are familiar with the frat’s nickname (Sigma Pi Epsilon is usually referred to as Sig Ep). Ask a friend which house you’re going to before you actually get there.
2. DON’T wear a “new student orientation” lanyard around your neck or carry around a campus map.
I know it’s convenient to put your room key and ID card in a plastic holder hanging from your lanyard, and this is perfectly acceptable during the day (at least during the first week), but put these important items in your pocket or purse when you go out at night.
3. DO know the house rules for beer pong and flip cup.
These are great party games—when you know how to play the right way. Ask for the next game and wait around for your turn so you don’t miss out. Alaine suggests “enlisting the cute guy nearby to play with you.” If you’re nervous about drinking when you play these games, no one will know if it’s just water in your cup.
4. DON’T go alone.
The last thing you want is to be alone when that creepy senior offers you a mystery drink he got from a closed room. You will probably feel awkward in a huge party setting all by your lonesome, anyways. At the same time, don’t go out in a huge group. Megan, a recent University of Michigan graduate, says, “Don’t go with like 17 people. Go in pairs.”
5. DO dress for the theme but don’t go overboard.
Wear something versatile so you can easily party-hop. Think a bright shirt for an 80’s themed party that can double as a glow-in-the-dark shirt at a highlighter party. Do not wear a full sexy cop or bunny costume. Not only will you look out of place if you go to another party, but you will also be a perfect target for real cops looking to catch underage drinkers.
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For those that have attended frat parties, do you agree with these tips? Are there anymore tips that you would like to add? Let us know!
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